Thursday, February 19, 2009

My Day in Court

I have spent the last two days sitting in a court room in support of my brother, Scott and his business partner. who are being sued by a third, ex-business partner. This is my first real live court experience. I have been called to jury duty a few times but each time the trail has been cancelled (thank heavens!). So I was thinking Law & Order court room. Not so much!!

I can't believe how one person can twist, turn, and construe the truth (and then convince his attorney) to be what he wants it to be. Am I prejudice since it's my brother? A little. I can't believe how common sense challenged some people are. Am I judging this person? Yes. Are there two sides to every story? Yes. Do I know the background of this case? Yes. Is there overwhelming evidence who is correct? Yes. Is this a moral issue? Yes. Is this a financial issue? Yes. Could this issue have been resolved without going court? Yes, a hundred times yes. Why are they in court? Pride. Do I have anything a stake in the judge's decision? Possibly, possibly not. Am I incredibly grateful for a brother has stood his ground, through this 2 year battle, for what he believes is right and honest? Yes, without a doubt. Am I grateful for a employment family who has supported Scott through all of this? Yes. At the end of the day, can I say I love my brother regardless of the outcome? Definitely, Yes!

I'm sure Scott doesn't read my blog, but I want him to know how impressed I've been with his level headiness, his diligent research, his willingness to try to resolve the issue multiple times, his determination to persevere, his openness about the situation, his ability to analyze the situation and think rationally, his ability to continue on with daily obligations while this is hanging over his head, his love for his employees and family, and his honesty and integrity.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

sorry courts not so fun But i tagged you and thats fun :-)
brooklyn

Amelia said...

I hope this is all over soon! I went to a trial for my Grandpa a few years back. It was heart breaking and exhausting. Good luck!

Justin said...

Sorry to hear about this Kara. I really do feel for you and your family. Jerin and Bryce just went through this recently and it isn't over. I just don't understand some people and the way they think. It is scary they are living among us. Hang in there!